Individual MEntoring + My Signature Course

Move from uncertainty to curiosity and wonder with mentoring support.

An individualized journey through your doubts and questions. Explore where you’ve been and what you hope for, challenge unhelpful cultural teachings, and ground back to the authentic parts of your faith. Plus access to my signature course Wonder & Doubt.

  • Keep your connection to God in the midst of deconstruction; gaining a deeper sense of what you honestly believe. 

  • Grow into a more authentic person of faith who has clarity on the values and ethics that drive your behaviors.

  • Talkback to the shames and shoulds of the Christian subculture, to sift out what is foundational and what is toxic teaching.

  • Accept where you are at in your faith journey, and gain confidence to communicate this to others.

  • Change your anxiety to wonder, filled with the ability to ask the questions that matter, and dream of a new way of showing up in your faith.

  • Use proven tools and practices to calm your spirit and connect you back to the truths of Jesus. 

Imagine being able to…

You can question your Christian faith without losing it.

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 SO…WHAT’S YOUR DECONSTRUCTION STORY?

  • You grew up in the church and it breaks your heart to think about stepping away.

  • You’re feeling salty toward the church and you’re wondering if you want to stay.

  • You love Jesus but aren’t so sure about his followers or how they act.

  • You’re too liberal for your conservative friends and too conservative for your liberal friends.

  • You’re concerned about how some of the teachings you grew up with impact others.

If you caught yourself nodding along to any of these, this Individual Mentoring could provide you with the support and hope you are looking for.

 

Hey I’m Amanda,

My big Deconstruction started about ten years ago, with the thought that there was one "right" way to believe and I was going to find it. I was desperately trying to hold onto my faith and I thought this certainty would be the way. With the help of my therapist, seminary professor, and spiritual director I began to reword my faith in a way that allowed my doubts and questions to co-exist. Now I help others do the same.

The last few years have been hard on the faith of a lot of us. I know there are others out there like me that are trying to navigate faith reconstruction and deconstruction with a little more hope.

 

 Results from Wondering Christians

Get inspired… this could be you!

“Amanda has a way of introducing new ways of thinking. It’s helping me hold my faith in a different way and I’m feeling hopeful again.

- Tara B.


When you sign up for Individual Mentoring you’ll get…

  • Two or Four 60-minute Individual Mentoring Sessions: Customized time that can be used to explore your faith questions, navigate church or family conflict, develop a reconstruction plan, tolerate uncertainty, and learn to separate your faith from toxic cultural elements.

  • Wonder & Doubt Online Course: A 6-module self-paced course complete with video teachings, resource lists, and practical skills for deconstructing and reconstructing your faith. 7+ hours of material.

  • Wonder & Doubt Workbook: Access to a downloadable 97-page workbook, where you can deepen your work and put it into practice.

  • Voxer Support: Connect with me throughout the process using this walkie-talkie app. Ask questions, share your thoughts, discuss concepts from the course, and feel supported.


You’ll also walk away with…

Practical tips to keep you grounded to your faith while in deconstruction.

You don’t have to go through this journey alone…

Let’s bring our deconstruction journey out of the shadows. Let’s speak life and not death into this process. You can identify, question, and doubt aspects of your belief system without losing your faith. 

When doubt is spoken out loud, feelings of shame, guilt, and loneliness are reduced. Amanda will provide a supportive atmosphere to wrestle through your big questions. You’ll gain perspective and insight from the experience that you can take to move your faith forward.

In a few weeks, you could be feeling lighter and more hopeful about this process. When you choose Individual Mentoring you will learn tools to reduce your distress, get to know yourself better, and connect you back to what remains true in your faith.

 

Purchase Options

 

Two 60-Minute Mentoring Sessions

Self Paced 6 Module Wonder & Doubt Course

Wonder & Doubt Workbook

ONE TIME PAYMENT OF

$327

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Four 60-Minute Mentoring Sessions

Self Paced 6 Module Wonder & Doubt Course

Wonder & Doubt Workbook

ONE TIME PAYMENT OF

$527

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 Other’s are saying

You Might Be Wondering …

When do Mentoring Calls take place?

Upon purchasing a package you’ll have three months to use your mentoring calls. Calls will take place over Zoom and scheduled through Calendly. You’ll receive this information after enrolling. While you have the freedom to schedule your calls as you’d like, my encouragement is to schedule one toward the beginning of the course.

What will be discussed on the Mentoring Calls?

Prior to the mentoring calls, clients will be given a form to complete to prepare for the Mentoring Call. They can pick from a number of topics to discuss or bring their own. This experience is meant to be tailor-made to what you need mentoring and support around. These might include: navigating relationships when faith shifts, learning to tolerate uncertainty in faith, practicing new ways of thinking about faith or learning new faith skills to move forward.

What is the time commitment for Individual Mentoring?

Expect to spend 1-1.5 hours in self-reflective work and practice for each module. However, you can decide the right pacing for you as you have lifetime access to the course.

Is this therapy?

Nope! Any services or programs offered through Hey Amanda! are within a mentoring, coaching, or consulting capacity. While you may learn skills and information that can reduce distress, these programs are not intended to treat, identify, or diagnose any medical or psychological condition. While I am a Licensed Social Worker, I will not be acting as a mental health professional in this setting. Should a mental health concern arise, I can refer you to a professional in your state.

Mentoring is a short-term, strength-based process focused on movement toward a specified goal. In this case that would be how to deconstruct and/or reconstruct without losing your Christian Faith. Mentoring is limited in time and scope.

Are you a Christian?

Yes! My boundaries are the Nicean and Apostle Creed, which I believe 80% of at any given time. There are still bits of my faith that I’m working out with fear and trembling, and I’ve accepted that doubt and faith will likely always be intermingled for me. I also am part of a local church body.

Do I have to be a Christian to work with you?

Not necessarily, but most of my teachings will be through a Christian lens, although they may be able to apply to other faith structures.

Do you offer a refund? 

Due to the automatic nature of being enrolled in the Wonder & Doubt Course, no refunds are issued for Individual Mentoring packages. If circumstances arise and you are unable to use all your calls within the 3-month timeframe, please reach out and we can see if an extension would be appropriate. If you have any questions about the program that would help you make an informed decision, please reach out through the Contact page.

What are your beliefs on inclusion? 

This program is open and inclusive to all who are sincerely working out their faith. Many on the journey of deconstruction are wrestling through what they were taught (indirectly or directly) about the LGBTQ community, women in ministry, white supremacy, and Christian nationalism. While we can acknowledge that we may be at different places in our exploration of these teachings, a value of Hey Amanda! is that we will honor and acknowledge the inherent dignity and worth of all people as Image Bearers of God. Implicit bias is to be expected, and we will work through those together when they come up, but explicit bias or prejudices will not be tolerated. Individuals who fail to show love and care in their language toward me or others will be removed.

 It’s time to cultivate wonder in your own deconstruction journey!

Don’t wait! Start learning how to get curious about faith deconstruction and explore the tools to move forward with a more authentic faith.

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